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How to make 100K as a developer

New video just posted for you. In this one… a lot of developers wanna hit that 100K range, but don’t have a plan for how to do it. THIS is how you build that plan to make sure you’re grinding in the right direction. Give it a watch:

And, I’d appreciate if you’d share it with any developers you know.

Later,

John

October 31, 2018

4 ways to work from home as a developer

I’ve worked from home full-time for 8 years now.

My little brother is going on 3 years. My mentor has worked from home full-time for ever a decade and a half. And, we all do it in very different ways. If that’s something you’d like to do, watch this video:

I’ll show you what I do.

What they do.

And, several other ways you can be a developer AND work from home.

Later,

John

 

October 30, 2018

Dreading tomorrow?

I remember this construction job I had.

I must’ve pissed somebody off, at some point, because I got relegated to “trash guy”. I remember I used to battle with my watch. It took everything in me to not keep looking down at it. I’d think an hour had gone by and it’d be just 15 minutes.

On this one site, I had my “spot”.

It was a bell tower for a church.

And, it had these loud ass steps.

So, I’d go up there, clean it up real quick then go take a nap in one of the nooks up there. Not because I was tired, but I was hoping I’d konk out for three or four hours and the day would be over.

If anybody ever came up, the stairs always woke me up.

Anyway, most people hate Mondays.

I always hated Sunday night.

As that feeling of “God, I gotta go to work tomorrow” slowly starts to creep over your body. “Is there some way I could quit? Maybe I’ll call in sick.” That anticipation was worse than the actual experience.

But, those were also the moments I was most motivated to make a change.

Eventually, I figured out how to channel that energy.

And, used it to finally, actually, make that change in my life.

In any case, if that’s you… if you’re thinking about tomorrow and dreading getting up and going to work… use it. That impulse to make a change is real. They’re moments of crystal clarity and tough honesty.

Don’t ignore them.

Wallow in them.

Make it hurt.

Feel it.

Then, get up and do something about it.

String enough of them together and you can make things happen.

And, of course, if you want assist when it comes to your web development and/or freelancing career, I’m here to help. I’ve got a whole curriculum for you to grind through and actually make that change.

It’s all there for you to make it happen.

Just gotta make that leap and decide to do it.

But, up to you.

If you’re in,  you can get access to the entire curriculum for nothing over on SkillShare. All the details on that are here: https://www.skillshare.com/r/user/johnmorris

Later,

John

October 28, 2018

The truth about wealth

I had this talk with my parents, last night.

Most people have a warped view of what wealth is.

I was telling them how my vision goes way beyond just myself. I don’t just want to have made myself wealthy. I want my kids and their kids and their kids and so on… to be wealthy. To build a kind of family dynasty.

Where the habits that lead to wealth are just expected.

The resources.

The knowledge.

That’s how legacies are built.

And, growing up the way I did, I NEVER want my kids or grandkids or great grandkids to go through what my brothers and I did. And, will literally spend the rest of my life working to make damn SURE it doesn’t.

Anyway, my dad said:

“Well, your mom and I are past that. We’ll never be wealthy.”

And, I was like hold on a minute.

What debt do you have?

None.

Student loans?

No.

Credit cards?

No.

Car payment?

No.

Mortgage?

No.

ANY loan?

No.

See, THAT is wealth. A lot of people equate wealth with a nice house or a fancy car. But, a lot of the people who own that stuff are buried in debt. You add up their net worth and they’re firmly in the negative.

Being ZERO net worth-wise is a win.

It’s a start.

Now, the land they own. The house. Every little thing puts them in the positive. And sure, if you added it all up, it wouldn’t be that big of a number for my parents. But, it’d be a positive one. And, that’s better than a lot of households.

Point is…

Don’t get too caught up in chasing the “appearance” of wealth.

Which is a lesson I wish 23-year-old me had been taught!

Instead, build real wealth.

Which is about profit, not just revenue.

Assets.

Eliminating debt.

Etc.

Anyway, take that for what it’s worth.

MY path to do all this included freelancing because it’s one of the simplest ways to get out on your own and start building your own legacy. I can’t hand my job down to my kids, but I can give them my freelance business.

In any case, if you wanna learn everything I’ve discovered in 14+ years…

And, build your own legacy…

Check out my new freelancing course here: https://skl.sh/2pOiF5g

Later,

John

October 27, 2018

The best freelancing advice you’ll hear

This from the Joelsuf-inator:

“One thing I’ve discovered is that doing this DOES require the same kind of productivity as a full time job. Just because you’re making money from home does not mean you can just cut your commitment levels in half. In many cases you should be tripling your commitment. I’m discovering this now. Sure I can pick anytime during the day to work, but I better be productive for 8-12 hours a day like with any kind of job. Separate learning from marketing from doing work.”

I literally can’t say it better.

As sure as the Earth ain’t flat…

If you follow this advice, you’ll eventually succeed.

I can’t tell you how many freelancers I’ve talked to who get into it thinking they’re gonna work 4 hours a day, right from the start, and make more than they did working their 9 to 5.

You can get there.

But, not until you’ve put in years of work.

Building your reputation.

Upping your prices.

Honing your execution.

Getting to that point requires you to be willing to put in triple the effort. This is why I say, for most people, freelancing is either in your DNA or it’s not. Some people hear what I just said and think:

“Why the hell would I do that?”

Others are so allergic to a 9 to 5…

They say:

“Whatever it takes.”

If you’re the latter, heed Sir Joelsuf’s advice.

And, you almost can’t lose.

Now, the caveat here is making sure all that hard work is actually productive. If you’re gonna run 100mph, make sure you’re headed in the right direction. Otherwise, you’re running yourself ragged for nothing.

And, as you know, that’s what my Beginner’s Guide to Freelance course is for.

It’s the map.

The big mile markers along the way to get you to a REAL business around your freelance services. So, you can methodically build it to the point you can work as much or as little as you want.

Make as much or as little as you want.

And, ensure all your hard work pays off.

In any case, you can get access to it for nothing over on SkillShare.

All the details on that are here: https://skl.sh/2pOiF5g

Later,

John

October 24, 2018

My hands were shaking as I sent the fax

I was 21.

I’d been promoted to manage my first store. I’d been there a couple months and had turned around a failing store. I was set to get promoted in a few months and start making close to 6 figures.

I still remember the day I quit vividly.

I’d been wrestling with the decision for a few weeks.

For a kid like me…

Growing like I did…

This was a golden ticket.

A REAL way out.

But, every day I was there I felt myself dying inside just a little bit more. I KNEW this wasn’t who I was meant to be. I knew I was meant to do more than sell shoes in a little mall store.

So, that day, I just couldn’t take it anymore.

My heart wasn’t in it.

As a manager, I had to fax in a written notice. And, I remember my hands were shaking as I put the letter in and hit the buttons. As soon as the fax stopped and I knew there was no going back…

A sudden rush of dread swept over my body.

“Did I just f!@# up my life?”

As it turns out, that was the best decision I ever made. There’s been a lot of ups and downs and a helluva lot of work… but, I couldn’t imagine how angry and full of regret I’d be now if I hadn’t done it.

In any case…

I imagine you might be in a similar spot… and while I’m cautious about telling someone to give everything up and pursue their dream… I can tell you, while it’s terrifying, it may be the single best decision you ever make.

Something to consider.

Anyway, web development was how I ultimately got out and built the life I really wanted. Could be the same for you. Just gotta put in the work. I’ve got a whole curriculum of coding and freelance courses to help.

And, you can get access to them for nothing over on SkillShare.

Details on all that are here: https://www.skillshare.com/r/user/johnmorris

Later,

John

October 10, 2018

You ever consider suicide?

Got this question:

“This is going to be perhaps the most personal question you’ve received from anyone. With all the remarkable things you’ve experienced as a soldier, with all the setbacks in your personal life, with the setbacks in your professional life – getting the freelance career going et al – did you ever reach a point – and this is the touchy subject – did you ever think of ending it all? Did you glance over to that rope thinking this was your way out? If you do NOT answer this. I FULLY understand.”

It IS personal.

But, I made a promise to tackle this kind of stuff…

So, I’m not going shy away.

If this is too much for you… I get it.

Simply, click away.

So, here’s the thing…

This will probably freak you out about me, but I’ve dealt with suicidal thoughts since I was 9 or so. I’ve told you about the car accident my dad, little brother and I were in. One of the things that happened after that…

Was I got told how close I came to dying…

I don’t know how many times.

Doctors.

Family.

I heard it so many times, I…

I don’t know… it was a lot.

They were well-meaning, but that f!@#s with you as a 9-year-old. Then, not long after that I was molested. It was a friend of the family who we saw from time to time and I was just about old enough to feel something wasn’t right…

But, they were clever.

And, it took me awhile before I fully realized what was happening…

And, that it was wrong.

That just made things worse.

In any case, the closest I ever came was (surprise, surprise) about 6 months after I got back from Iraq. I was dealing with PTSD and it had hit its worst. I was working at a pizza place at the time.

And, we always had an evening rush.

I was an assistant manager…

And, had to make sure everything ran smooth.

It was stressful.

And, my body was out of whack in terms of dealing with stress. I used to go outside after each rush was over, sit down by the dumpsters where no one could see me and just bawl my eyes out for 10-15 minutes.

No real reason why…

Other than I was just overwhelmed.

As the months of this wore on…

I considered a lot of things.

The one day I remember vividly… it was raining. And, I was following this semi-truck back home from work. I lived about 10 miles from where I worked. And, the whole way I had this overwhelming urge to just drive into the back of it.

I could’ve easily passed it.

But, I didn’t.

I just sat there staring at it as I drove.

That’s the strongest I ever felt it.

Anyway, how’d I make it out? Well, thankfully, I had (have) an amazing wife who just kept putting up with me. I had a son I just couldn’t leave. But, somehow I found a way to just draw a mental “red line” around suicide.

No matter what happened…

It just wasn’t an option.

That saved me more than once.

Then, and this is going to sound uber cliche, but I found a deeper purpose in life. For some people, that’s religion or something spiritual. For me, it was my kids. It was a legacy and the kind of life I wanted to give them.

And, how I wanted THEM specifically to remember me.

I still tear up thinking about it.

But, once I had that purpose or “mission” in my life…

That stuff mostly went away.

I have no idea if that’s how it works for others…

Or, if that’s helpful to you at all…

But, that’s my answer.

It’s also partly why… while I generally come across as a curmudgeonly bastard, I deep down actually DO really want to help people. I just also have very little tolerance for excuses. Like do it or don’t… but quit bitching.

Your life is what YOU make it.

Don’t like it?

Change it.

Anyway, take that for what it’s worth.

It’s just how I look at it.

Of course, if you’ve been here longer than a minute, you know the drill… web development was how I “escaped”. And, teaching that to people is how I help. So, if you’re tired of making excuses and want to make it happen…

My free tutorial site will help you get started: https://www.johnsfreetuts.com

And, it costs absolutely zero.

I’ve put my heart and soul into those courses to try and helps others “escape”, as well.

Anyway, do what you want…

But, if you’re life isn’t what you want it to be… do SOMETHING.

Later,

John

September 26, 2018

I almost killed this guy

It was Iraq.

I was a Combat Lifesaver, which meant we got a little extra medical training. And, I’d volunteered to work at the on-base hospital, because they were short-staffed. So, whenever we had a “mass casualty” type event, I went up there.

That day, a mortar round landed on base…

Right in the middle of one of the unit’s meeting.

There were over 30 people that got hit.

And, the hospital had 2 doctors and 2 medics.

We had to fill in the gaps on the rest of the casualties. The ones hit the worst went to the doctors and medics. The rest to us. That was the first time I was responsible for someone all by myself.

He had shrapnel wounds all across the front of him.

And, he’d broke his arm.

But, he wasn’t seriously hurt.

The only real risk was him going into shock.

So, the big thing was to get an IV in him, get his wounds dressed and arm in a splint and he’d be just fine. Now, we spent a lot of time practicing IVs. And, I had the distinction of never having missed in the dozens of times I’d practiced it.

But, as I went to give this guy an IV.

I was literally shaking.

I kept trying to calm down…

But, my hands just wouldn’t stop shaking.

I did my best, but I missed. And, as soon as I did, he freaked out. Starting yelling, “Do you know what the f!@# you’re doing?” I’ll be honest, I damn near cracked. That moment was just so intense.

All the chaos around me.

This guy screaming at me.

And, my mind racing about 100 mph.

It was almost too much.

Thankfully, I had a friend. Melissa. She was running around just helping everybody she could. And, she saw the guy freaking out and came over. I told her what happened and she said to me, “You got this. You’re the best of us at this.”

Then, she looked at him and said:

“He knows exactly what he’s doing.”

“Just relax and let him do his job.”

He calmed down.

I calmed down.

And, I nailed the IV on the next attempt. Got him bandaged up and after a few minutes, he calmed way down and we were in the clear. I remember every time I saw that guy on camp after that.

It reminded me of how I almost failed…

And, how someone else almost died because of it.

I had thought I was prepared.

I’d even gotten little cocky because “I never missed”.

But then, I missed when it mattered most.

My point of telling YOU this is… this is the reason behind why I constantly push you to put yourself out there. Apply for that job, take that client, put up that profile. I know it’s not exactly the same…

And yet, it some ways it IS.

Because this is YOUR life at stake here.

And, the truth is…

You can practice in your head all you want.

Prepare as much as you can.

But, nothing will fully prepare you for the day you go “live”.

You just have to suck it up and do it to know what it’s going to be like. For me, after that day, I trained harder than I ever had. It gave me new meaning and purpose. And, the next time a real situation came around… I didn’t miss.

So, I know it’s scary…

And, you likely will fail in some way.

But, you HAVE to do it if you want to move forward.

And, if you stay calm, stay focused and just GRIND…

You’ll get through it.

And, that’s when the world opens up to you. Once you conquer that initial fear, suddenly anything becomes possible. And, you’ll feel a whole new purpose and energy to everything you do.

So, the line is cliche, but it’s also true:

Just DO It!

That said, I had a friend. Someone who helped me through it. I’m honestly not sure what I would have done had she not been there. If you want the same kind of assist, I have a whole curriculum of training…

To teach you everything I know about making this work.

And, help you get over that initial hump of fear and doubt.

And, you can get access to it for nothing over on SkillShare.

Details on that are here: https://www.skillshare.com/r/user/johnmorris

But, whatever you do… go for it!

It’s the only way forward.

Later,

John

September 23, 2018

Tattoo this on your fookin’ forehead

I got this from Jen on Facebook:

This is one of the things that drives my inner grumpy old man to drink.

We live in this world where a whole cadre of charlatans well-meaning self-help “gurus” bloviate teach about how to “channel” your inner confidence. All, you gotta do is stand on your head and rub your belly while chanting “ooooooom”.

Or whatever B.S. stuff they’re teaching these days.

And, I mean… yeah.

Some of that stuff can be helpful.

But, the simplest, most effective, most guaranteed to way to generate ACTUAL confidence on a day in, day out basis… is from competence. In fact, tattoo this s!@# on your forehead (not really, tho):

Confidence comes from competence!

All the chanting and “oooom”-ing is meant to get you into action.

But, if you never actual do things that are scary to you…

You never actually EARN that real confidence.

I think this is why people who go through my stuff report this same kind of rise in confidence. Finally, someone who refuses to pat their head and fill them full of rainbows and butterflies.

No.

It IS your fault.

It IS your responsibility.

It IS up to you.

Chant and “ooom” all you want.

Then, when you’re done, get up and actually DO something.

Apply for that job you’ve been scared to apply for. Put that profile up on Upwork you’ve be procrastinating on. Start that YouTube channel. Learn that language. I don’t know what it is for you… but I know it’s something.

Something that as soon as I say all this…

Comes immediately to mind.

You’re thinking about it right now.

Trying to find out way out.

A way to NOT have to do it.

STOP!

DO IT!

It’s your dragon to slay!

So, slay that b!@#%!

Whew!

Okay, got a little fired up there, but you get the point.

Nothing happens until you do this.

That’s the reality.

Anyway, if you want an assist with the web development side of things, I’ve got a whole curriculum of courses for you to grind through, learn, act and EARN that confidence in your web development skills.

And, you can get access for nothing on SkillShare.

Details on that are here: https://www.skillshare.com/r/user/johnmorris

But, regardless…

DO something.

Life is way too short to not at least CHASE the kind of life you want.

Later,

John

September 18, 2018

She slammed me into a telephone pole

​​​​​​​I think about that day a lot.

I was 8. My dad was driving my little brother and I to school. It was foggy and we couldn’t see more than five feet in front of the truck. We came to an intersection with a major highway near where we lived.

I still feel responsible.

Because, my dad asked us:

“Can you guys see anything?”

I said, “No.”

And, he took off across the highway. She was speeding. 65 mph in a 55. She slammed into the side of our S-10 just behind the passenger door where I was sitting… no seatbelt. The impact launched us 30 feet in the air and spun the truck 180 degrees.

We slammed into a telephone pole…

Just in front of the passenger door.

Had either impact been two inches closer to the door…

I’d have died instantly.

But, that’s not what I think about or feel guilty about. It was my dad. When we hit the ground, we were all thrown from the truck. He landed awkwardly and chipped part of his spinal cord. He’s been a paraplegic ever since.

Since moving down closer to my mom and him…

I see him every day.

The struggle just to get out of bed.

Going the bathroom.

Eating.

It’s all an excruciating amount of work.

When I was a kid, I used to think that if I were him, I’d have handled it better. I wouldn’t have “checked out”. I’d have worked my way back to “normal”. I’d have taken care of my kids and my wife.

God, what an arrogant S.O.B. I was.

Next year, I’ll be the same age he was when it happened.

It seems obvious now that I have no idea how I’d handle a situation like that.

But, watching all this taught me something…

Something that drives a lot of the choices I make.

Life can turn in a split-second.

One day, you’ve got it all figured out. The next it all comes crashing down. You can never be prepared enough. That’s why I’m a web developer. It’s why I freelance and run my own business. It’s why I moved to Missouri.

On and on.

I’ll be damned if my kids suffer like I did… no matter what happens.

Point is…

Yes, it’s Monday. Yes, Mondays suck. Yes, it can be easy to just “take a day” and phone it in. Well, let me be your kick in the a!@. Tomorrow ain’t given. It can all go away in a flash. Are you prepared?

Is your life everything you wanted it to be?

Could you look back now without regrets?

If not, suck it up there buttercup.

Don’t fall into the easy “It’s Monday” excuse.

Be better than everybody else.

And, get to crackin’.

You can’t control what the future will bring your way…

But, you CAN control what you do now to be ready for anything.

And, of course, if you want an assist web development-wise, I’ve got a whole curriculum of courses for you to get crackin’ on. HTML, CSS, PHP, MySQL OOP, freelancing and more.

You can get access to it for nothing over on SkillShare.

Details on that here: https://www.skillshare.com/r/user/johnmorris

So, no excuses bucko!

Time to make it happen.

Later,

John

September 17, 2018

When I die

I’ll never let what happened to my wife… happen to MY kids.

It was such a mess.

Her dad recently passed away and had ZERO planned or prepared for his death. So, instead of focusing on grieving, my wife and her family were scrambling figure out all the details of his funeral and scrounging up the money to pay for it.

And, it’s like I told her…

That’s HIS fault.

If you leave your kids in a bind like that when you die, you failed them.

Matter of fact, after seeing it I had a uncomfortable talk with my own dad.

And, I’ll be damned if I ever let that happen to my kids.

But, it’s more than that.

I don’t just want to “not leave them a mess”.

I want to be able to hand them an “empire”. That’s one of the biggest reasons I run a business and don’t work a regular job. I can’t give my job to my kids. But, my business, I can. It’s why I work at it as hard as I do.

It’s why I learn things I’m not necessarily interested in.

So, I can teach them.

Really, it’s the WHY behind everything I do.

Legacy.

How will I be remembered?

Not just by MY kids…

But by their kids…

And, THEIR kids.

As a father, I feel like it’s MY responsibility.

In any case, if you have or plan on having kids, I recommend taking a moment to take stock. Are you prepared? Will you be able to hand them something of value when you go? How will they remember YOU?

If that vision isn’t 100% what you’d like it to be…

You need to get crackin’!

Because, we never know when that moment might come.

Anyway, if you need an assist with the web development career part that will help you to BUILD all of this, you can get access to my full curriculum of web development training courses for nothing over on SkillShare.

Details on that are here: https://www.skillshare.com/r/user/johnmorris

But, whatever you do… don’t brush this off.

The older you get, the more you’ll wish you started sooner.

So, get after it.

Later,

John

September 13, 2018

I was 8 feet from death

After yesterday’s email, I had quite a few people ask me to talk about my Army experience more. To be honest, I’ve purposefully NOT done that because it just seemed sort of cliche and banal.

But…

If people are finding it helpful, I’ll give it a try.

Depending on how you respond I may do more.

Anyway, when I was in Iraq, I was stuck on the teeniest of teeny camps. It was 300 yards wide by 1 mile long. For comparison, Camp Victory, which was right next door to us was 20 square miles.

And, in the year I was there, we had 1159 mortar rounds land inside our walls.

If you can imagine a Google map just covered in pins…

That’s what the “mortar map” looked like.

In fact, the camp was nicknamed “Mortaritaville”.

Every square foot of the camp had a mortar round land on it at one time or another. Which, as you can imagine, was terrifying. Every day, you woke up and knew that your walk to the bathroom or shower or chow hall could be your last.

And, there was nothing you could do about it.

Anyway, the closest I ever came to “getting it”, I was just leaving the warehouse I ran while I was there. I got about 20 feet outside the warehouse and the camp sirens started going off.

There happened to be a CONEX box just a few feet away.

So, I dove on the ground and crawled up next to the side of it.

Good damn thing, too.

Because, the mortar rounds started landing just on the other side of it. And, they slowly started walking back closer. The last few rounds hit right next to the other side of the 8 ft. box. I could hear the shrapnel pounding up against it.

I was sure more rounds were coming…

And, were going to land on my head.

But, the biggest mistake you can make is to get up and run.

That’s asking to get hit.

So, I just laid there waiting.

That was my life for the year I was there. But, it taught me something that I’ve used literally every day since… and I credit for the majority of any success I’ve achieved since. And, that’s the ability to endure, be patient and stay focused…

Even when everything around me seems like it’s falling apart.

When I got back and was bouncing from job to job. When I felt like my wife would leave me at any second because I was a loser. When, I started do this coding thing and was terrible at it. Hell, even now, as I’m living and working in the same building while we build our house.

The ability to persist…

And, keep focused…

And, just keep moving forward…

Most of that came from my time in Iraq.

Anyway, I don’t think you necessarily need to go to a war zone to develop that ability, but you do need to KNOW just how important it is. In some ways, it’s everything. Because, no matter what you do… you’ll face adversity.

How will you react?

Cut tail and run?

Or, stick in there and keep grinding.

That’s something only you can answer.

Of course, you don’t need to go it alone when it comes to the adversity you’ll face in building your web development career. That’s what I’m here for and I’ve got a whole curriculum to help you fast-track down that path.

And, you can get access to it for nothing over on SkillShare.

All the details on that are here: https://www.skillshare.com/r/user/johnmorris

BUT…

Know, there will be challenges, doubts, fears and lots of hard work.

Your ability to PERSIST will determine how far you go.

Later,

John

September 12, 2018

The day that changed my life forever

I still remember it like it was yesterday.

I was working construction at the time. We all suddenly got called back to the office. The first plane had hit and we all sat there around the radio as the second one hit.

Nobody knew what to think or say.

We just sat there horrified and speechless.

Our foreman then sent us all home.

I had already joined the Army in their Delayed Entry Program and was set to start training in six months. I immediately called my recruiter.

“What does this all mean?”

“Will they be having me go to training early?”

“Are we going to war?”

Of course, he had no idea.

Just over a year later, I was in Iraq. In fact, I got there the week of my birthday and basically spent the first three days in a bunker waiting out the mortar attacks.

Here’s the messed up thing.

It was IN Iraq that I really discovered the internet…

Online business…

And, eventually web development.

I often wonder what my life would be like if I’d never went over or never joined the Army or if 9/11 never happened. So, today is always awkward for me.

I’d take it all back in a second.

And yet, I wouldn’t be the person I am today if I did.

Anyway, I don’t have much of a point other than to say… it’s easy to look back on past choices and mistakes with regret and wish you could go back.

But, who knows how that would affect your life?

You wouldn’t be the person you are, today.

And, at the end of the day, we CAN’T go back.

So, all you can do is keep looking forward and keep moving. Eye on the prize… the career and life you want for yourself and the grind to get there.

And, try to enjoy the journey along the way.

Anyway, if you want an assist with your web development career, get no-cost access to my entire curriculum over on SkillShare. All the details on that are here: https://www.skillshare.com/r/user/johnmorris

Later,

John

September 11, 2018

The guy my wife left me for

Thinking about it still makes my stomach churn.

We went to one of her sister’s kids’ baseball games. And, in these small towns, everybody went to school together and nobody ever leaves.

So, you’re always running into someone.

This time it was Josh.

I didn’t take long into the conversation for my insecurities to start flaring up. He was talking about this “amazing” job and all the money he made.

His new 4-bedroom house.

He pointed to his new Chevy truck in the parking lot.

Blah, blah, blah…

“F!@# this guy!”, I kept thinking.

And, as they sat there chatting, my mind started to race. “Look at how she looks at him. She never laughs that much at MY jokes. Why can’t we just f!@#ing leave?”

And, that ball of anxiety…

And anger…

And ultimately sadness…

In my stomach just kept growing.

Later that night, as we argued about money for probably the 100th time that week. I couldn’t help but wonder, “Was she secretly wishing she’d married him and not me?”

I was convinced…

“This is the guy my wife will leave me for.”

Here’s the truth.

It may be the same for women, I don’t know. But, I KNOW for most guys, when you don’t have your career in order… either, you’re still figuring out what you want to do…

Or, you’re working some job you hate…

It makes you feel like less of a man.

We could debate all day if it *should*…

But, it does.

And, when you’re in that place… it infects every part of your life. Especially, your relationships. The conversation my wife had in the park that day…

Is one she’s probably had 100 times since.

It was nothing.

But, because I didn’t have my s!@# together, every little insecurity I had came raging to the surface and I was surprised when she didn’t just shag him right there in the park. That’s how crazy it can get.

Anyway, point is…

Don’t think you can skirt around this. If you KNOW your career isn’t where you want it to be, don’t fool yourself into thinking, you can fudge.

Instead, attack it.

Head on.

And, start pursuing the career and life you really want deep down in the places you don’t tell anybody about. It makes you feel whole.

And, every other part of your life better.

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Later,

John

September 10, 2018

Hiring managers are your enemy

And, you shouldn’t ever forget that.

They don’t care about you.

Think about it this way. What do you think a hiring manager is more likely to get “in hot water” from the “highers ups” over?

  1. Not hiring a good employee
  2. Hiring a bad employee

I hope the answer is obvious.

Executives and higher ups will almost never know if a good employee slips through the cracks. And, how do you KNOW for sure they’d be a good employee, anyway?

But, a bad employee.

Well, you see that.

It’s right in your face.

So, most hiring managers (despite all the koombaya crap they’ll feed you) are in CYA (Cover Your Arse) mode. They’re just itching for a reason to disqualify you.

So, when you send off that resume.

Or, go in for that interview.

You are at war with them and their “process”.

A process designed to disqualify you.

I once had a hiring manager tell me that he told the plant manager who wanted me NOT to hire me. But, that plant manager was doing it anyway.

And, the hiring manager hoped things didn’t work out.

So, he could tell the plant manager, “I told you so”.

That’s how adversarial they can be.

Anyway, the trick is confidence. When you know who you are and what you’re capable of, the people interviewing you can sense it.

And, it almost doesn’t even matter what you say.

You’ll just “feel right” to them.

And, can damn near any job you want.

And, of course, confidence comes from competence.

Knowing your s!@#.

So, it all always comes back to your grind.

And, getting to it each and every day…

To make yourself better.

Anyway, my coding curriculum on SkillShare can help you get there. Use this link to get started for nothing: https://www.skillshare.com/r/user/johnmorris

Later,

John

August 22, 2018

Any monkey can learn to code

I first talked about this way back in 2013.

In fact, this is exactly what I said:

“But, to be honest, I’ve never really talked much about what it REALLY takes to be successful as a developer. Because, while all that technical mumbo-jumbo is cool… none of it REALLY matters. Yes, you need to know how to do those things… but those things aren’t what MATTER most when it comes to determining the successful from the unsuccessful. Any monkey can learn to code.”

Which… okay.

Touch aggressive maybe.

But, the point stands.

I mentioned this is yesterday’s podcast (johnmorrisshow.com)… 51% of CIO list soft skills as the top skills they want from technology professionals.

In another study by CareerBuilder, 77% of tech companies said soft skills were just as important as hard, tech skills in the employees they’re after.

But, back in 2013…

Man, I took flak for saying that.

Everyone was so wrapped up in tech skills…

Being the end-all, be-all.

Now, five years later…

“Well, duh, that’s obvious”…

Is the common response I get.

So, what happened?

It goes back to what I’ve been telling you. The rapid evolution of our industry has all kinds of side effects. Competition, overwhelm…

And, a loosening focus on hard skills.

Why?

Because, as an industry grows in complexity and the rate of change increases, focusing on any one language, framework, tool or skill…

Becomes sillier and sillier.

Because, five minutes later, something new is out.

(Which, btw, is why the Medium-heads who love to call everyone noobs for not learning the latest “flavor of the week” are so moronic.)

Eventually, what matters is NOT what you know…

But, your ability to learn…

A soft skill.

Your ability to adapt, your work ethic, your dependability, your non-douchiness. What companies need is someone who can thrive in a rapidly-evolving environment.

Not someone who happens to know XYZ language.

Yes, they still ask.

Yes, it still matters.

But, when it comes to who they actually hire…

More and more it’s about those soft skills.

Point is…

As you’re putting all this time into learning HTML and PHP and Node or Go or whatever it is you’re doing… don’t forget to develop a work ethic.

To be honest.

To learn how to communicate effectively.

Those things may well be the thing that get you hired.

(Which, btw again, is why I strongly recommend any new developer freelance for at least a year. There’s maybe no better way to learn all these skills while getting paid.)

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Later,

John

August 20, 2018

Fake PHP jobs

So, from yesterday…

There’s obviously lots of PHP jobs posted out there.

But, Leon asked this in response to that video:

“How many companies lie about their intentions to hire, to create a false shortage, to argue for more (cheaper) foreign workers?”

I’ll keep it real.

My gut reaction is:

“Who gives a f!@#?”

It’s not ALL of them. I know that. And the only way you’ll really know is to apply. It just feels like an excuse to me. And, that gets my inner grumpy old man outta his chair.

Buuuuuuut.

Let me be civil.

I looked it up. I can’t find any hard numbers on it. I saw one guy said 87%, but didn’t provide a single shred of evidence to back up his claim.

And, that seems like a ridiculous number to me.

So, don’t fall for any numbers anyone might spout off.

Unless they give you some real evidence for it.

But, there’s a really simple way you can tell if a job is fake or not. It’s called their “employment brand”. Think of something like Glassdoor.

Is the company reviewed there?

Or, does it have reviews on Indeed?

Does it have a “what it’s like to work here” on its site?

A company’s employment brand is content, both on and off its own site, that talk about what it’s like to work there, what job openings they have, how to apply…

All that.

If it does, it’s probably legit.

If not, probably not.

And when you find a job posting on one of the 10 different sites I showed you in the video, yesterday, you can take about 5 seconds and google a company before applying.

It’s that easy.

So, don’t let this be an excuse.

If you’re legit worried about it…

Search on Glassdoor, then.

Filter by a company’s star-rating.

And, take 2 seconds a google each company…

Before you take the time to apply.

So, noooow… with that excu– ahem reeeason put firmly to bed, now what’s stopping you from applying to a bunch of PHP jobs, today?

Not ready yet?

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Later,

John

August 18, 2018